THE RELATIONSHIP RECONNECTION EXPERIENCE
Stop trying to convince your partner to do couples counselling.
Experience a fresh, body-based approach to relationship repair with two trusted guides who understand both sides of the story.
Some couples don’t just need another therapy session. They need a completely new experience of themselves and each other. One that’s alive and embodied, but still practical.
We offer a unique, holistic approach that blends conversation, somatic awareness, and guided intimacy exercises.
You’ll learn how to repair conflict, deepen understanding, and discover how to make your relationship thrive... With intimacy tools you won’t get on a counsellor’s couch.
Whether you’re navigating trauma,
craving more passion after kids,
or just curious about what a deeper connection could feel like...
This work meets you both exactly where you are, and brings you back to each other in a whole new way.
How Relationship Reconnection™ transforms relationships
We guide couples through a somatic, spiritually-informed approach to relationship repair that helps you move beyond repeating patterns and into deeper connection.
This isn’t traditional talk therapy.
It’s an immersive experience in Conscious Partnership. It will engage your body, your emotions, and your nervous system as much as your mind.
    
    
  
WHAT MAKES THIS WORK DIFFERENT
Our work blends the three aspects of Conscious Partnership:
    
  
  INTEGRATION
You'll each learn to recognize what’s happening in your own body, so you can soften protective patterns and eventually master the art of co-regulation.
    
  
  RECONNECTION
Upgrade your communication and learn embodied repair to restore the trust that's essential for intimacy & fun.
    
  
  AWAKENING
Develop a Conscious Partnership by aligning your relationship with your deeper values, family vision, and spiritual path.
The Relationship Reconnection Experience™ is a blend of solo Somatic Integration Therapy with partnered Reconnection Sessions.
When you commit to this work together:
Integration creates room for Reconnection → which results in Awakening → which invites more Integration → and this cycle continues indefinitely.
What Clients Say:
Mark S.
“You didn’t just tell us what to do. You showed us how to be with each other differently. That changed everything.”
Salina T.
"They are incredibly skilled in being compassionate witnesses, holding space in the truest way, while delivering their message with a no bullshit approach that will swiftly pull you out of any self delusion."
Kristine B.
"I was a bit tired before our session, but I felt so nourished and present afterwards. The altar you set up was so beautiful. It definitely felt sacred."
Mary-Ann O.
"They create a very safe space for both people to be vulnerable and make some progress on their relationship. Can't say enough about their skills."
CURIOUS TO KNOW IF THIS IS RIGHT FOR YOU?
APPLY FOR THE RELATIONSHIP RECONNECTION EXPERIENCE
Our powerful methods can repair deeply-rooted wounds & reconnect you with each other, in a container that's designed to fit your unique relationship.
Enter Your Information to Begin the Application
There's no obligation to move forward. We'll connect with you via email to give you more information, and discuss if this experience is right for you and your partner.
    
    
  
Meet Your Guides: Aaron & Alissa
Relationship Experts and Mentor Couple
If anyone knows how difficult and confusing it can be to reconnect after a long day (or decade) of inner turmoil, it's us.
We've lived through the effects of abusive relationships, sexual trauma, addiction, divorce, bankruptcy, blended parenting, and living in a culture that encourages families to do everything on their own.
Click here to learn more about our personal stories and professional background.
The couples we work with each have different experiences, but no matter if their difficulties stem from long-term illnesses or brand new babies, they're all looking for the same thing: guidance to find their way back to each other.
"How do we get back to liking each other again?"
"Can we fix our sexual incompatibility?"
"Does life have to be boring once you're married?"
We've been there.
Our relationship has become our greatest teacher, and we’ve lived through the storms that help us guide others with real empathy and embodied wisdom.
We can help you find your path to reconnection.
FAQ
What if my partner doesn’t want to do therapy?
So, if this isn't couples counselling, what is it? Coaching? Energetic healing? How do I explain it to my partner?
How much does The Relationship Reconnection Experience cost?
How can we try your work before committing to the full Reconnection Experience?
Who are Aaron & Alissa?
Do we have to talk about our sex life?
Can we do this work if we’re not married or if we’re in a new relationship?
Do we need to be in crisis to benefit from this work?
What if we have a lot of unresolved trauma? Is this still right for us?
We mostly fight about stupid stuff. Is that enough of a reason to do this work?
How does The Relationship Reconnection Experience actually work?
Okay, but is it fun? Or is this just going to be more emotional homework?
This is more than marriage counselling.
The Relationship Reconnection Experience is a somatic, spiritually-informed alternative to couples counselling. It's a 6-month commitment to shared growth, conflict repair, and rekindled intimacy. In-person in Calgary, or online worldwide.
What Happens in The Relationship Reconnection Experience?
Here's what you'll learn:
- The real reasons you're not getting what you want from the relationship
 - How to communicate your needs in a way your partner can actually hear
 - What true co-regulation feels like
 - How to repair after conflict, without shame or shutdown
 - New ways to explore each other's maturing bodies
 - Our secret weapon for intimacy upgrades: The Touch Lab
 
Who is This For?
This work is for couples who:
- feel stuck in cycles of disconnection, criticism, or withdrawal
 - are both committed to working on themselves as individuals
 - are ready to show up for each other with vulnerability
 - are opposed to traditional therapy because "We don't need to pay someone to listen to our problems"
 - are ready to do something experiential, to really feel change, not just understand it
 - will commit to their homework in-between sessions (it's usually fun)
 - are open to seeing relationship as a spiritual path
 - have a holistic belief system for nutrition, parenting, mental health, etc. (because your relationship deserves that too!)
 
Apply for The Reconnection Experience
Because of the depth and personal nature of this work, we can only accept a limited number of couples at a time.
If you’re ready to reconnect with yourself, your partner, and the future that awaits you both...
We invite you to apply for The Relationship Reconnection Experience: